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Salt looks like sugar

Friend is not just the word, is not just accompany you in happy, and it doesn’t just cause a laughter. Having a lot of friends is good, but having one sincere friend is more meaningful. Gue termasuk orang yang supel, atau gampang banget buat kenalan dan dapetin temen baru. Tapi suatu saat gue pernah denger kalimat dari sahabat gue yang berbunyi seperti ini “isn't a big problem I have more friends but I have a sincere friend is more important.” Dari situ sadar bukan sekedar haha hehe bareng, apalagi sekarang kerasa banget, malah semakin kerasa kalo dalem pertemanan ga butuh yang hanya sekedar nyamperin gue kalo ada butuhnya ato senengnya aja.

Uda umum banget yekan kalo lagi susah, bisa banget tu di itung pake jari mana yang ada nemenin kita, dan mana yang malah cuman ngeliatin doang. A healthy friendship is be friends with a person who can take you in a positive direction, which can benefit one another, in a positive way. Buat apa kalo untuk menguntungkan dia saja, truly friend is benefit both of them, not just one side, remember! We should know, what kind of sincere friend is that? meskipun seperti mencari jarum dalam jerami. It's rare but it's there. Well, neither one of them has any effect on our lives, so we can see how they treat us.

There’s a good friend but there is a certain purpose, and must be vigilant about it, the main poin is be aware. Menurut gue sangat sulit bedain yang mana bener-bener temen kalo lo lagi di masa-masa sekolah, karena jenjang dari selesai sekolah lo bakalan ngerti hidup yang sesungguhnya. Bukan tentang hidup yang keras, tapi tentang hidup yang di buat ribet oleh manusia itu sendiri. Lo bakalan bisa milah yang beneran bisa be friends never endless, atau cuman sementara. Gue ngerasa semakin kesini semua itu serba cepet, gada waktu buat santai-santai, semua orang juga pada pengen ngeraih apa yang dia pengen, begitu pun gue.

Don’t trust what you see, even salt looks like sugar. Itu kenapa diatas tadi gue nulis be aware, karna emang manusia suka lupa dan suka ngeliat yang sekilas lewat di depan mata aja, tapi lupa menyadari apa yang sebenernya terlihat, gue pun seperti itu. so be careful🙂
alhamdulillah sejauh ini gue sangat sangat sadar dan bisa bedain itu semua, gue nulis gini bukan bedasarkan sok ketahuan tapi ini semua nyata, liat dari beberapa contoh real di sekitar bahkan contoh ini berasal dari bokap gue sendiri, He’s the nicest person when he has having friendship. Jangan pernah lelah untuk berbuat baik, meskipun kamu di perlakukan tidak baik. Itu yang selalu papa ajarin ke irene.

I hope we can be friends, after you read my writing. Thank You x.

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